If i take it 2-3hrs before activity (Ceebis) I may not feel the effect?
I had recent labs done (just check up related) and Doc said everything was good. Do I have to ask for a specific set of labs?
Ok. I'll do this if Ceebis doesnt work.
The “yeah, but...” tone of this post tells me that it is in your head. Like others have suggested, take a small dose, 2.5 or 5 mg. You need to have some success and stop overthinking this. You've had the Ceebis for a couple of months and are staring at it, agonizing over whether to take it or not. Your hesitation is only making it worse, and I fear that us older guys trying to find an intellectual answer is only heightening your anxiety. If you have a girlfriend, tell her what you're going through. If she is into you, she'll be more than excited about being the one that helps you have great sex. Your success will make her feel special and uniqu, a setup for great sex with a very willing partner for you. If the GF is a cover story, start taking Gene' NO Stack and include the Ceebis. You'll find yourself getting random erections and you'll realize that you are ok. You'll also get a lot more ripped if you workout as well.
And, are you working out? You don't sound very confident and are highly anxious about this. Understandable, but don't make it worse by the mental masturbation and the woulda, coulda, shoulda, that you are doing to yourself. Putting on 10-15 lbs of muscle also might boost your confidence as well. Women hitting on you, you using Gene's Stack, and some positive and assertive body language could lead to enough erections spontaneously that let you know that you can have sex when you want.
As a psychotherapist, I see a lot of young guys like yourself go through this. Is it psychological? Maybe. As many have suggested, get bloodwork, but don't wait another 2 months for the results, take some action immediately, today even. Regardless of the blood work, this is going to be the course of action anyway. Start the Stack, make an appointment with a urologist or someone who specializes in TRT and start projecting a more positive attitude. Tell the GF what's going on, and give it a whirl.
You also may may want to see a counselor that specializes in cognitive behavioral therapy. The last thing you need is someone prescribing you an SSRI. If you are anxious about that, google some behavioral interventions for performance anxiety. Their are many behavioral strategies that not only work, but are fun and many couples continue to incorporate them in their sex long after the problem is resolved.
For you, success will create confidence. Enough of the hesitation on this. You are wasting the best years of your life for mate selection. Do this, and let us old guys know how you are doing.
