My wife was thinking the same thing till I told her that its not her and thing for me physically are not right. Took her a while to understand. After being on TRT for a few years now she knows the day after a shot things work better and its not her. I have to agree with Gene my wife loves it now but hates that taking Viagra or Cialis causes me headaches, my face get real red and after she can feel my heart pounding. I have talked to a doc and will be getting
TriMix he even suggested it after I told him how the side effects are for me. I had gotten some 60mg cialis and took those and actually got my wife to say WOW during sex. Things worked better then ever. You just have to have a very frank talk with her and tell her that its not her but you. Good luck. its not an easy talk to have if you wife is out of shape they think its because of that and it has nothing to do with them. We have been married for 30 years and she still thought it was her fault.