Masturbation frequency

[BJE]

How often do you masturbate solo and whether you are single or married/partnered?

 

[Vince]

If you're married or have a lover and you have sex. I would think it would keep you from masturbating?

 

[BJE]

If you're married or have a lover and you have sex. I would think it would keep you from masturbating?

That’s why I separated married from single. However, I know a lot of married men who masturbate frequently and also have sex with their wife.

 

[DixieWrecked]

Damn. Apparently I need to get out more.

 

[Vince]

That’s why I separated married from single. However, I know a lot of married men who masturbate frequently and also have sex with their wife.

I'm not one of them, I think not masturbating keeps the loving that much better.

 

[BJE]

I'm not one of them, I think not masturbating keeps the loving that much better.

I agree.

 

[excelnelg]

Hard disagree with the anti-masturbation NOFAP school of philosophy. Pro free expression of one's sexuality as one sees fit.

 

[BJE]

Hard disagree with the anti-masturbation NOFAP school of philosophy. Pro free expression of one's sexuality as one sees fit.

I agree with you completely. I don’t do it very often because it can interfere with having frequent sex with my wife but I can’t stand the anti masturbation movement which began hundreds of years ago and was continued by kooks like Dr. Kellog in the early 20th century.

 

[BJE]

I’d like to ask the person who voted more than once daily just how many times a day they do it.

 

[Simbarn]

Interesting survey. I hope many guys participate in this.
The less hangups about masturbation the better!

 

[BJE]

Interesting survey. I hope many guys participate in this.
The less hangups about masturbation the better!

I made it an anonymous so men can reply without embarrassment.

 

[Coconutz]

As a 41 year old, single man, I haven't masterbated in yeeeears. I used to all the time, and it absolutely rewires the brain to not crave REAL sex anymore and destroys libido. Especially while watching porn at the same time. Porn, and the ability to make ourselves have an orgasm at ANY given moment of the day, is completely unhealthy for men. Everybody loves cumming, as it's the most amazing feeling on the planet. But sexual energy is supposed to be shared with another human, and not released ourselves. Think of human evolution. The men that are jerking themselves off are NOT procreating withinthe tribe.. It's straight up beta Behavior amongst the rest of the men.

It's all about discipline. I wish I could feel an orgasm multiple times a day. It's like a drug. If some of yall feel the need to make yourself cum every time your dick gets hard, your lacking dopamine responses elsewhere in your life. Focus that energy on something else instead of jacking off. Maybe talking to some REAL women, than can sense your horned up?(or whoever your attracted to) Go to the gym? MAKE MONEY, Take a jog? Go cook a meal. ANYTHING except lotioning up ONE hand

I can actually spot the chronic masterbaters while out in public. Half can't even look you in the eyes when they speak. All fidgety and completely lack confidence. I've actually walked by men in public places WATCHING porn right there on their phones. And i guarantee he beat his dick like it owed him money in the public bathroom with the boner that he gave himself in the food court of the mall. This is a sickness that I once had myself, so don't think I'm talking down to those that do. Think of what YOU actually look like while your jerking off, It's so sad and lonely and NOT what attracts a partner.

Have fun justifying jacking the meat boys. I'll save my sexual energy for the pussy that's walking right passed yall while your jerking off. I personally would rather have sex once or twice a week, than masterbating much more than that. To each their own. ‍

 

[Coconutz]

Hard disagree with the anti-masturbation NOFAP school of philosophy. Pro free expression of one's sexuality as one sees fit.

How old are you? I'd love to hear everybody's age that justifies defiling oneself

 

[Coconutz]

I'm not one of them, I think not masturbating keeps the loving that much better.

It does! Masturbating means your fantasizing about someone else if your partner is right there in front of you. There's something lacking in the relationship if that's the case

 

[excelnelg]

As a 41 year old, single man, I haven't masterbated in yeeeears. I used to all the time, and it absolutely rewires the brain to not crave REAL sex anymore and destroys libido. Especially while watching porn at the same time. Porn, and the ability to make ourselves have an orgasm at ANY given moment of the day, is completely unhealthy for men. Everybody loves cumming, as it's the most amazing feeling on the planet. But sexual energy is supposed to be shared with another human, and not released ourselves. Think of human evolution. The men that are jerking themselves off are NOT procreating withinthe tribe.. It's straight up beta Behavior amongst the rest of the men.

It's all about discipline. I wish I could feel an orgasm multiple times a day. It's like a drug. If some of yall feel the need to make yourself cum every time your dick gets hard, your lacking dopamine responses elsewhere in your life. Focus that energy on something else instead of jacking off. Maybe talking to some REAL women, than can sense your horned up?(or whoever your attracted to) Go to the gym? MAKE MONEY, Take a jog? Go cook a meal. ANYTHING except lotioning up ONE hand

I can actually spot the chronic masterbaters while out in public. Half can't even look you in the eyes when they speak. All fidgety and completely lack confidence. I've actually walked by men in public places WATCHING porn right there on their phones. And i guarantee he beat his dick like it owed him money in the public bathroom with the boner that he gave himself in the food court of the mall. This is a sickness that I once had myself, so don't think I'm talking down to those that do. Think of what YOU actually look like while your jerking off, It's so sad and lonely and NOT what attracts a partner.

Have fun justifying jacking the meat boys. I'll save my sexual energy for the pussy that's walking right passed yall while your jerking off. I personally would rather have sex once or twice a week, than masterbating much more than that. To each their own. ‍

Wow. You can spot chronic masturbators out in public? That's quite the superpower!

 

[tareload]

Props on the poll choice resolution. Lots of options. You get old enough and you realize masturbation was a lot of work in the younger years. Mother nature is a cruel and funny lady.

 

[FunkOdyssey]

I’d like to ask the person who voted more than once daily just how many times a day they do it.

Well @readalot, how many times is it then?

Haha, kidding. My objections are that it wastes time and that porn is the quintessential example of technological artificial stimulation that desensitizes us to natural rewards. I have a rule that if I do it, there should be no porn involved. In my opinion that rule is sufficient to keep you out of trouble and keep the frequency low.

 

[tareload]

Well @readalot, how many times is it then?

After way way over the 10,000 hour rule (see Outliers by Gladwell), pornography does not elicit any response down below. You could say I am completely immune.

Saves a lot of time and the normal (historically reproductive) activity with significant other works great.

 

[excelnelg]

How old are you? I'd love to hear everybody's age that justifies defiling oneself

The fact that you refer to it as defiling oneself says it all. Notice it's never the chronic masturbators that try to moralize sexuality and force their beliefs on others.

 

[Coconutz]

Wow. You can spot chronic masturbators out in public? That's quite the superpower!

After all that I wrote, that's all you have to say in response?? Triggered, or ashamed of your chronic masturbation? Your passive aggressive way of responding my post, tells me that YOU didn't even comprehend my entire post. Because if you reread it, you'll see that I said I also had a problem with chronic masturbation and I wasn't talking down to anybody. I was giving advice as to what helped ME. To help YOU. Justify it all you want. Chronic masturbation isn't healthy.

You never answered my question to you, in your response to my post about how old you are. Because in my opinion, this is a generational thing. If you have the time to chronically masturbate multiple times a day, you obviously don't have a career/business to focus on all day long.

'Force' My beliefs?? This is an open forum dude. I gave you my opinion. Sorry if it offends you that some men don't chronically mastburate and would prefer the company of another human. If you don't like what I wrote, it wasn't meant to help YOU.