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Is Marriage for Me? Seeking input from guys.
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<blockquote data-quote="JA Battle" data-source="post: 197028" data-attributes="member: 40068"><p>im divorced and I agree whole heartedly. You have a fair amount of experience in 10 years of what needs to be done.</p><p></p><p>Being a divorced man, I have a few things that I can teach:</p><p></p><p>1. Be the right man. Be hormonally well so that your behavior and choices are consistent and not lacking. Behavior across the board needs to be solid and producing results for yourself and those you are responsible for.</p><p></p><p>2. Find the right woman. If you have number 1 above figured out you will have a high level of awareness and also self pride. You will not keep female company around you for long that doesn’t completely fulfill you or female company that does not help you get your life where you want it to be.</p><p></p><p>A few years ago, I purchased a dog from a shelter for my wife and kids. No matter what we did we could not train the dog. There was something wrong with it. It was not well. $4000 trainer that trains most of southern Maine’s police force dogs kept my dog for 2 months. Got him back, the little bastard was still screwing up.</p><p></p><p>point is, I chose the wrong dog. Why? because I was in a hurry. Because of my own issues with immediate gratification. Because of my hormonal weakness.</p><p></p><p>hrt has changed my outlook. My ability to discern. If you are older and or one that needs a wife to get sex, there is a smaller margin of error. So the pressure is on if you need sex because you may have to invite someone in that you don’t want and she sets a hook</p><p></p><p>At the end of the day, being happy to be alone and pursuing an enjoyable life on your own is the great equalizer. You cannot be manipulated. Problem is, most are too weak to do this. But if you can, and you are reasonably social, you will have options and not have to ever settle down until you are very experienced and ready to discern good life partner from not good life partner.</p><p></p><p>I have 5 kids, it’s crazy. I see my shortcomings, and with this have chosen not to remarry at least for some time. I’m just focusing on being a dad and making the money that my parents and my children need. Facilitating opportunities for those I love. And working on my hrt protocol to unlock my fullest potential. I don’t need a woman at all. Sometimes at a gathering I will flirt and whatever happens happens. But I don’t need affection or affirmation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JA Battle, post: 197028, member: 40068"] im divorced and I agree whole heartedly. You have a fair amount of experience in 10 years of what needs to be done. Being a divorced man, I have a few things that I can teach: 1. Be the right man. Be hormonally well so that your behavior and choices are consistent and not lacking. Behavior across the board needs to be solid and producing results for yourself and those you are responsible for. 2. Find the right woman. If you have number 1 above figured out you will have a high level of awareness and also self pride. You will not keep female company around you for long that doesn’t completely fulfill you or female company that does not help you get your life where you want it to be. A few years ago, I purchased a dog from a shelter for my wife and kids. No matter what we did we could not train the dog. There was something wrong with it. It was not well. $4000 trainer that trains most of southern Maine’s police force dogs kept my dog for 2 months. Got him back, the little bastard was still screwing up. point is, I chose the wrong dog. Why? because I was in a hurry. Because of my own issues with immediate gratification. Because of my hormonal weakness. hrt has changed my outlook. My ability to discern. If you are older and or one that needs a wife to get sex, there is a smaller margin of error. So the pressure is on if you need sex because you may have to invite someone in that you don’t want and she sets a hook At the end of the day, being happy to be alone and pursuing an enjoyable life on your own is the great equalizer. You cannot be manipulated. Problem is, most are too weak to do this. But if you can, and you are reasonably social, you will have options and not have to ever settle down until you are very experienced and ready to discern good life partner from not good life partner. I have 5 kids, it’s crazy. I see my shortcomings, and with this have chosen not to remarry at least for some time. I’m just focusing on being a dad and making the money that my parents and my children need. Facilitating opportunities for those I love. And working on my hrt protocol to unlock my fullest potential. I don’t need a woman at all. Sometimes at a gathering I will flirt and whatever happens happens. But I don’t need affection or affirmation. [/QUOTE]
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