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Is Marriage for Me? Seeking input from guys.
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<blockquote data-quote="Mountain Man" data-source="post: 196784" data-attributes="member: 14411"><p>Sorry for my bluntness, but you don’t seem ready, at least not with the expectations you have. You don’t keep in shape for intrinsic reasons, you seem to do so just to snare a woman. This is a set up for a future dad bod, which is cool if that’s the look you are going for, but you only have yourself to blame.</p><p></p><p>As far as the idea that sex will get boring and you don’t have great sex with a wife, you have a lot to sort out there as well. I am married at 34 and sex has been a priority for most of those years. Four boys got in the way for a number of years, but keeping in shape is a way that a couple can continue to be excited by each other and when the kids leave the nest, it is game on. Takes a lot of work and commitment as well as persistence and a wife who is willing to give you sex even when she doesn’t feel like it and do so with enthusiasm.</p><p></p><p>You have too many doubts right now. The “I love her to death” statement that you made is followed by an unspoken but... which implies you really do not love her in a way that indicates marriage. The fact that you do not fall asleep well when you sleep with her also indicates an underlying issue. When you truly love someone there is a comfort that allows total relaxation and trust. You find that you can’t sleep well without her.</p><p></p><p>Don’t get married to this one. Too many doubts. Some doubt is natural, but your head and attitude is already defeated. You are projecting yourself as fat, out of shape, and tired having boring sex and no drive in life. Not the way to start a marriage that is going to be a lasting one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mountain Man, post: 196784, member: 14411"] Sorry for my bluntness, but you don’t seem ready, at least not with the expectations you have. You don’t keep in shape for intrinsic reasons, you seem to do so just to snare a woman. This is a set up for a future dad bod, which is cool if that’s the look you are going for, but you only have yourself to blame. As far as the idea that sex will get boring and you don’t have great sex with a wife, you have a lot to sort out there as well. I am married at 34 and sex has been a priority for most of those years. Four boys got in the way for a number of years, but keeping in shape is a way that a couple can continue to be excited by each other and when the kids leave the nest, it is game on. Takes a lot of work and commitment as well as persistence and a wife who is willing to give you sex even when she doesn’t feel like it and do so with enthusiasm. You have too many doubts right now. The “I love her to death” statement that you made is followed by an unspoken but... which implies you really do not love her in a way that indicates marriage. The fact that you do not fall asleep well when you sleep with her also indicates an underlying issue. When you truly love someone there is a comfort that allows total relaxation and trust. You find that you can’t sleep well without her. Don’t get married to this one. Too many doubts. Some doubt is natural, but your head and attitude is already defeated. You are projecting yourself as fat, out of shape, and tired having boring sex and no drive in life. Not the way to start a marriage that is going to be a lasting one. [/QUOTE]
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