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<blockquote data-quote="Mountain Man" data-source="post: 87713" data-attributes="member: 14411"><p>Wow. I'd examine the relationship with your wife. Does she know how you feel? Have you spoken about the increase in sex drive you have? Is there some other way she might get you off when she is unable to have sex with you? If you want casual sex, that is an option, but I don't think that is something you want to do without a little more thought, or you wouldn't have posted this. If you are looking for someone here to co-sign cheating, I'm sure you will get someone sooner or later. </p><p></p><p>Talk to to your wife, but don't threaten her by retelling the chick at the bar story. You both need an honest discussion about sex, your increased drive and possibly her decreased drive. If she's around your age, she may be going through premenopausal symptoms and her drive may be way down. My wife and I went through a similar pattern 15 years ago and we had a discussion. It was resolved by her stating that if she didn't want sex, she would not deprive me, and often satisfied me manually or orally. Sometimes she even agreed to sex although she wasn't fully interested. For some reason, possibly because it was a challenge to me , we had great sex and both of us were satisfied. This phase often passes in a marriage, and today as empty nesters we are having the best sex of our 30year marriage.</p><p></p><p>Naturally, both of you have to be responsible partners, keep in good physical shape, be respectful and loving to each other. Have a frank talk with your wife, emphasizing that your libido is up and you want HER more than ever. If she's reluctant, insist she meet with her doctor for a full physical to see if there are any medical reasons for the drop in her desire for you.If still no go, you have some decisions to make.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mountain Man, post: 87713, member: 14411"] Wow. I'd examine the relationship with your wife. Does she know how you feel? Have you spoken about the increase in sex drive you have? Is there some other way she might get you off when she is unable to have sex with you? If you want casual sex, that is an option, but I don't think that is something you want to do without a little more thought, or you wouldn't have posted this. If you are looking for someone here to co-sign cheating, I'm sure you will get someone sooner or later. Talk to to your wife, but don't threaten her by retelling the chick at the bar story. You both need an honest discussion about sex, your increased drive and possibly her decreased drive. If she's around your age, she may be going through premenopausal symptoms and her drive may be way down. My wife and I went through a similar pattern 15 years ago and we had a discussion. It was resolved by her stating that if she didn't want sex, she would not deprive me, and often satisfied me manually or orally. Sometimes she even agreed to sex although she wasn't fully interested. For some reason, possibly because it was a challenge to me , we had great sex and both of us were satisfied. This phase often passes in a marriage, and today as empty nesters we are having the best sex of our 30year marriage. Naturally, both of you have to be responsible partners, keep in good physical shape, be respectful and loving to each other. Have a frank talk with your wife, emphasizing that your libido is up and you want HER more than ever. If she's reluctant, insist she meet with her doctor for a full physical to see if there are any medical reasons for the drop in her desire for you.If still no go, you have some decisions to make. [/QUOTE]
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