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Testosterone Replacement, Low T, HCG, & Beyond
Clomid for PCT, fertility or low T
Husband is on Clomid—nothing has changed
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<blockquote data-quote="Mountain Man" data-source="post: 123926" data-attributes="member: 14411"><p>These are good questions. In addition, what was sex like before with him. Was it ever any good? Has he ever been interested in sex with you? You say you have been married for a year or so, and this stuff started on the honeymoon, so have you known him longer than that? A lack of libido on a honeymoon, regardless of medical issues is a red flag. As a guy who has been a couples therapist, I see a lot of red flags in addition to the hormonal problems. Some guys don’t like sex and some guys try to marry to give the appearance that they are normal. Some couples don’t mind a sexless or virtually sexless marriage. I’d guess if this was bothering him, he would be interested I’d solving the problem. The fact that you are doing the asking of questions implies that you are working harder to resolve this than him. He needs to take ownership of this issue and do his own research.</p><p></p><p>He also needs to get fit. How’s his sleep, diet, does he exercise, lift, or have any activities that may spike some testosterone for him? By all means, check testosterone levels and hormones, but a decent therapist who can do a sexual history can also ferret out some of the details. With what you are describing, the devil may be in the details.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mountain Man, post: 123926, member: 14411"] These are good questions. In addition, what was sex like before with him. Was it ever any good? Has he ever been interested in sex with you? You say you have been married for a year or so, and this stuff started on the honeymoon, so have you known him longer than that? A lack of libido on a honeymoon, regardless of medical issues is a red flag. As a guy who has been a couples therapist, I see a lot of red flags in addition to the hormonal problems. Some guys don’t like sex and some guys try to marry to give the appearance that they are normal. Some couples don’t mind a sexless or virtually sexless marriage. I’d guess if this was bothering him, he would be interested I’d solving the problem. The fact that you are doing the asking of questions implies that you are working harder to resolve this than him. He needs to take ownership of this issue and do his own research. He also needs to get fit. How’s his sleep, diet, does he exercise, lift, or have any activities that may spike some testosterone for him? By all means, check testosterone levels and hormones, but a decent therapist who can do a sexual history can also ferret out some of the details. With what you are describing, the devil may be in the details. [/QUOTE]
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