Recent content by learner

Pornography is a killer of the soul and also of a healthy sex life. It definitely harmed me and I allowed it to put me in bad situations and developed sexual addiction issues. After intense counseling, I have beaten this back for over 5 years now. Don’t play with fire men. Just be with the one...

So if your sex life is unfulfilled then fantasizing of others helps??!! That’s a warped and twisted way to make things “better”. My experience is that your fulfillment will be exponentially better if you are there 100% and wholly committed to the person you’re with. God was on to something when...

Only the skanky ones!

Never too late! I changed my life at 53! Better than ever living a life of gratitude and thankfulness. You can too.

You're missing out dude. When you are there completely and wholly it is even better.

I used to do that when I was broken from past sexual trauma and unable to be emotionally available. It was about the act, the physical, the orgasm and not to be with someone in love. It is so much better to be present completely and give yourself to someone. I'm sure there are guys who do what...

Well that’s just sad. Therapy will help with that and the trauma you may have experienced in your past. Good luck.

Man that sucks. I’m sorry for your jacked up situation.

I am sorry your situation is less than ideal. I was not a great husband as I had sexual addiction issues for years. These past 5 have been the best by far. It’s so much more than the sex and orgasm. It’s hard to explain but it is much more mind blowing when you’re all in and 100% there. Didn’t...

I will! Sex is much better now than at 20. So much higher quality than when it was daily and more than once daily. So satisfying.

I am 58 and have been married over 34 years.

I think it is wrong to do that. We should be giving all of ourselves to the woman we are with at that moment. It is a deep connection we should have. That’s why casual sex is hollow and leaving you wanting more or new experiences because it was satisfactory. It took me years to get this and now...

March 11, 1989

Do vitamin stores have products that can increase T levels? Are they worth the money if you just need a small boost? Thanks

You got married a year before us. 34 1/3 and going strong