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Pornography is a killer of the soul and also of a healthy sex life. It definitely harmed me and I allowed it to put me in bad situations and developed sexual addiction issues. After intense counseling, I have beaten this back for over 5 years now. Don’t play with fire men. Just be with the one...

So if your sex life is unfulfilled then fantasizing of others helps??!! That’s a warped and twisted way to make things “better”. My experience is that your fulfillment will be exponentially better if you are there 100% and wholly committed to the person you’re with. God was on to something when...

Only the skanky ones!

Never too late! I changed my life at 53! Better than ever living a life of gratitude and thankfulness. You can too.

You're missing out dude. When you are there completely and wholly it is even better.

I used to do that when I was broken from past sexual trauma and unable to be emotionally available. It was about the act, the physical, the orgasm and not to be with someone in love. It is so much better to be present completely and give yourself to someone. I'm sure there are guys who do what...

Well that’s just sad. Therapy will help with that and the trauma you may have experienced in your past. Good luck.

Man that sucks. I’m sorry for your jacked up situation.

I am sorry your situation is less than ideal. I was not a great husband as I had sexual addiction issues for years. These past 5 have been the best by far. It’s so much more than the sex and orgasm. It’s hard to explain but it is much more mind blowing when you’re all in and 100% there. Didn’t...

I will! Sex is much better now than at 20. So much higher quality than when it was daily and more than once daily. So satisfying.

I am 58 and have been married over 34 years.

I think it is wrong to do that. We should be giving all of ourselves to the woman we are with at that moment. It is a deep connection we should have. That’s why casual sex is hollow and leaving you wanting more or new experiences because it was satisfactory. It took me years to get this and now...

March 11, 1989

Do vitamin stores have products that can increase T levels? Are they worth the money if you just need a small boost? Thanks

You got married a year before us. 34 1/3 and going strong

My definition of an Alpha is one who is a servant leader. He is sure of who he is and is good with it. He doesn’t need to be the center of attention like some spoiled rich frat boy. He has confidence he can get that dream girl and then goes and gets her. People approach the Alpha leader, he...

Two maybe 3 times a week. I’m 58 and she is 56. It is super high quality and we both always have great orgasms. After 30 years of sex we have found the perfect positions and techniques we both love. Keeps getting better with age!

Yes! I was sexually abused as a kid by a peer and an older kid. I’m sure they too were abused as they would not have known to do those things. This over sexualizes kids which is what happened to me. For years the only way to feel ok/good was during sex/orgasm. This becomes the driving force of...

She gets sore and is prone to uti’s when we used to be active daily.

I have the most wonderful wife ever. We make love a couple times a week. I had sexual addiction issues from puberty until counseling 5 years ago. It’s something I had to overcome so masterbating is not allowed for me as I can’t cross that threshold again. With strength from God I have had...

Do any of you have issues with semen building and leaking when straining in the slightest? Was walking up stairs and about a tablespoon of semen came out. It’s embarrassing when this happens as it is enough to wet your pants and requires changing. Thanks

If you have a secret on this let me know!

I wish that would happen!!

The times it leaked was after days of no sexual activity. Once it was as much as about half of an ejaculation, like a tablespoon full.

Went to third urologist. Says my balls are on the larger side so they may be producing more sperm and semen. My testosterone level has always been very good so who knows. Always seemed normal to me but apparently the average size is 13-15 ml for left and 14-16 ml for right ball. Mine are 18.675...

Like a lot of semen. Running up the stairs caused it to come out. I had ultrasound of my testicles as the urologist said they looked enlarged. They have always been this size. Didn’t know that 18.6 ml and 20.2 ml considered my balls large.

Guys, I need advice. Treated for prostatitis and that wasn’t my issue. Having perineal pain and testicle pain and with little strain I have semen leakage. Help