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<blockquote data-quote="Mrs. Robinson" data-source="post: 84858" data-attributes="member: 16830"><p>Not sure where to start here... My husband and I have been married over 4 years during which his lack of libido became glaringly obvious from the start. We've suspected low T for a long time and did get a blood test done a few months ago, altho not conclusive enough. Only measurement is total T which came in at 449. He is 23 yr old, (19 when symptoms became apparent). I've read enough on forums to know we're probably wasting our time with general practitioners, and plan to proceed with Defy Medical for treatment options. Now my question here is: we'd like to conceive in 6 months or so, more or less depending how soon we're ready. I know TRT seriously affects sperm count. Would it be better to just forget about treatment until after conception? If he suffers from low T is his sperm count already low and our chances slim? (Though our odds are certainly slim now, abstinence is 100% effective.) Or get a sperm analysis first to see what we're dealing with now? Waiting does seem like the easiest option almost, but some days I'm not sure I can take it waiting that long for him to finally have an interest in sex. His lack of arousal does have a serious affect on my self esteem, hard as I try not to. I would love if he would be the one trying to find answers, but it doesn't seem to bother him much, although he is willing to pursue treatment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mrs. Robinson, post: 84858, member: 16830"] Not sure where to start here... My husband and I have been married over 4 years during which his lack of libido became glaringly obvious from the start. We've suspected low T for a long time and did get a blood test done a few months ago, altho not conclusive enough. Only measurement is total T which came in at 449. He is 23 yr old, (19 when symptoms became apparent). I've read enough on forums to know we're probably wasting our time with general practitioners, and plan to proceed with Defy Medical for treatment options. Now my question here is: we'd like to conceive in 6 months or so, more or less depending how soon we're ready. I know TRT seriously affects sperm count. Would it be better to just forget about treatment until after conception? If he suffers from low T is his sperm count already low and our chances slim? (Though our odds are certainly slim now, abstinence is 100% effective.) Or get a sperm analysis first to see what we're dealing with now? Waiting does seem like the easiest option almost, but some days I'm not sure I can take it waiting that long for him to finally have an interest in sex. His lack of arousal does have a serious affect on my self esteem, hard as I try not to. I would love if he would be the one trying to find answers, but it doesn't seem to bother him much, although he is willing to pursue treatment. [/QUOTE]
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