ExcelMale
Menu
Home
What's new
Latest activity
Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
Latest activity
Videos
Lab Tests
Doctor Finder
Buy Books
About Us
Men’s Health Coaching
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Navigation
Install the app
Install
More options
Contact us
Close Menu
Forums
General Health & Fitness
Health & Wellness
What are “Blue Balls” and “Blue Vulva”?
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="madman" data-source="post: 210722" data-attributes="member: 13851"><p>[URL unfurl="true"]https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/what-are-blue-balls-and-blue-vulva[/URL]</p><p></p><p></p><p>[ATTACH=full]17238[/ATTACH]</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sometimes, people feel some minor discomfort in their genitals if they have been sexually aroused for a significant period of time but haven’t reached orgasm. <strong><em>This aching, heavy feeling is often referred to with the slang terms blue balls (for people with penises) and blue vulva (for people with vaginas).</em></strong></p><p></p><p>Contrary to what might be reported, the genitals do not actually turn blue.</p><p></p><p>Blue balls and blue vulva have not been rigorously studied by academics. <strong><em>Generally, people should not be alarmed if it happens. It can take some time for the aching to go away, but there are ways to relieve symptoms.</em></strong></p><p></p><hr /><p><strong>Why might discomfort occur?</strong></p><p></p><p>When a person is sexually aroused, arteries widen to allow more blood into the genitals. Veins constrict so that the blood remains, as the body prepares for sex. The penis forms an erection, and the testicles expand (sometimes up to 50% of their original size). The labia, vagina, and clitoris swell and lubricate. There is also an increase in genital blood pressure.</p><p></p><p>If the person reaches orgasm, the blood is released back into the body, and the body relaxes.</p><p></p><p>If there is no orgasm, the blood still leaves the genitals, but the process might become uncomfortable.</p><p></p><hr /><p><strong>Blue balls and blue vulva aren’t serious, but the following steps can help ease the discomfort:</strong></p><p></p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><em><em>Reaching orgasm through another means, such as masturbation</em></em></li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><em><em>Resting</em></em></li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><em><em>Distracting oneself with nonsexual thoughts or activities</em></em></li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><em><em>Placing a cold compress on the genitals</em></em></li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul"><em><em>Taking a cold shower</em></em></li> </ul><p>People who have genital pain when they are not aroused should see their healthcare provider.</p><p></p><hr /><p>While orgasm is often considered the end goal of sexual activity, encounters don’t necessarily need to end this way.<strong><em> Still, lack of climax can have some negative effects, in addition to blue balls or blue vulva. People may feel disappointed or frustrated when they don’t reach orgasm, and such feelings may diminish overall sexual satisfaction. Similarly, failing to bring a partner to orgasm may lead to feelings of inadequacy and poor sexual confidence.</em></strong></p><p></p><p>Couples are encouraged to be open with each other about their sexual likes and dislikes. Those who struggle with orgasm might consider seeing a sex therapist.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="madman, post: 210722, member: 13851"] [URL unfurl="true"]https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/what-are-blue-balls-and-blue-vulva[/URL] [ATTACH type="full"]17238[/ATTACH] Sometimes, people feel some minor discomfort in their genitals if they have been sexually aroused for a significant period of time but haven’t reached orgasm. [B][I]This aching, heavy feeling is often referred to with the slang terms blue balls (for people with penises) and blue vulva (for people with vaginas).[/I][/B] Contrary to what might be reported, the genitals do not actually turn blue. Blue balls and blue vulva have not been rigorously studied by academics. [B][I]Generally, people should not be alarmed if it happens. It can take some time for the aching to go away, but there are ways to relieve symptoms.[/I][/B] [HR][/HR] [B]Why might discomfort occur?[/B] When a person is sexually aroused, arteries widen to allow more blood into the genitals. Veins constrict so that the blood remains, as the body prepares for sex. The penis forms an erection, and the testicles expand (sometimes up to 50% of their original size). The labia, vagina, and clitoris swell and lubricate. There is also an increase in genital blood pressure. If the person reaches orgasm, the blood is released back into the body, and the body relaxes. If there is no orgasm, the blood still leaves the genitals, but the process might become uncomfortable. [HR][/HR] [B]Blue balls and blue vulva aren’t serious, but the following steps can help ease the discomfort:[/B] [LIST] [*][I][I]Reaching orgasm through another means, such as masturbation[/I][/I] [*][I][I]Resting[/I][/I] [*][I][I]Distracting oneself with nonsexual thoughts or activities[/I][/I] [*][I][I]Placing a cold compress on the genitals[/I][/I] [*][I][I]Taking a cold shower[/I][/I] [/LIST] People who have genital pain when they are not aroused should see their healthcare provider. [HR][/HR] While orgasm is often considered the end goal of sexual activity, encounters don’t necessarily need to end this way.[B][I] Still, lack of climax can have some negative effects, in addition to blue balls or blue vulva. People may feel disappointed or frustrated when they don’t reach orgasm, and such feelings may diminish overall sexual satisfaction. Similarly, failing to bring a partner to orgasm may lead to feelings of inadequacy and poor sexual confidence.[/I][/B] Couples are encouraged to be open with each other about their sexual likes and dislikes. Those who struggle with orgasm might consider seeing a sex therapist. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Share this page
Facebook
Twitter
Reddit
Pinterest
Tumblr
WhatsApp
Email
Share
Link
Sponsors
Forums
General Health & Fitness
Health & Wellness
What are “Blue Balls” and “Blue Vulva”?
This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
Accept
Learn more…
Top