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I would argue that in this case mental factors are still playing a role, even when you're alone and not worried about performance.


Just the very subtle act of even thinking about your erectile quality - whether it's in front of a computer screen by yourself with a box of tissues, or with the hottest girl you've ever seen, or with a wife that you love - introduces a mental element that men who have never had any erectile issues never deal with.


In thinking about how long it takes to get an erection, evaluating how hard it is, etc we introduce a subtle psychological stress that in turn, negatively affects the very thing we're focusing on improving.


Certainly not trying to tell you what YOUR experience is - nobody knows that better than you and you seem to have a good handle on things. Just trying to generally explain that the mental aspect can be so insidious that it does indeed affect men even when they're doing something as simple as a little five on one.


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