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<blockquote data-quote="Anonymon" data-source="post: 223047" data-attributes="member: 42608"><p>No worries, that’s what I assumed you were doing. To help sum up some of what you said for other guys that could benefit:</p><p></p><p>Your relationship will remain happy and healthy if your girl feels like you have plenty of other options and despite all that you still chose her and you are the one in the driver’s seat. Which isn’t to say you can’t get comfortable with someone nice and enjoy it and shouldn’t treat them well, but deviating from the former will make her emotionally jump ship in most cases. She’ll rationalize reasons why that make her feel better and are flattering for her to say, but the truth of it’s usually just female mating psychology.</p><p></p><p>I admittedly screwed up something recently with a hot 22 year old that threw herself at me because I’d gone through some weird shit with someone a month before and was just so unbelievably happy since this girl was pretty perfect for my tastes and lifestyle and I’d just gotten my thyroid situation more under control. She said she loved how kind I was and I kept thinking “no, you don’t, and I should probably pull it back now before I screw this up.” She said it was because of the big age difference between us but I know that wasn’t it. It was her feels because I fumbled the ball. Which is too bad because she was great.</p><p></p><p>The red pill is something that continually needs swallowing. Sucks but that’s how it is. That doesn’t mean you should be a dick, but appreciate how female psychology actually works, and that men and women are very different. It’s harder because most girls can’t admit things to themselves because it makes them feel bad to say, like that they’d rather have a guy with a lot of money, things like that. Then you talk to them and they’ll say they like this and that, or want this and that, and you have to at times take it in context as an expression of emotion and not take it as something literal that a guy would say. You can never really take too many red pills. Take ‘em till they’re coming out your butt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Anonymon, post: 223047, member: 42608"] No worries, that’s what I assumed you were doing. To help sum up some of what you said for other guys that could benefit: Your relationship will remain happy and healthy if your girl feels like you have plenty of other options and despite all that you still chose her and you are the one in the driver’s seat. Which isn’t to say you can’t get comfortable with someone nice and enjoy it and shouldn’t treat them well, but deviating from the former will make her emotionally jump ship in most cases. She’ll rationalize reasons why that make her feel better and are flattering for her to say, but the truth of it’s usually just female mating psychology. I admittedly screwed up something recently with a hot 22 year old that threw herself at me because I’d gone through some weird shit with someone a month before and was just so unbelievably happy since this girl was pretty perfect for my tastes and lifestyle and I’d just gotten my thyroid situation more under control. She said she loved how kind I was and I kept thinking “no, you don’t, and I should probably pull it back now before I screw this up.” She said it was because of the big age difference between us but I know that wasn’t it. It was her feels because I fumbled the ball. Which is too bad because she was great. The red pill is something that continually needs swallowing. Sucks but that’s how it is. That doesn’t mean you should be a dick, but appreciate how female psychology actually works, and that men and women are very different. It’s harder because most girls can’t admit things to themselves because it makes them feel bad to say, like that they’d rather have a guy with a lot of money, things like that. Then you talk to them and they’ll say they like this and that, or want this and that, and you have to at times take it in context as an expression of emotion and not take it as something literal that a guy would say. You can never really take too many red pills. Take ‘em till they’re coming out your butt. [/QUOTE]
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