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<blockquote data-quote="DixieWrecked" data-source="post: 223044" data-attributes="member: 38965"><p>I have found that the most anxiety inducing behavior that elicits the most loving and cooperative response from a female is controlling the amount of attention I provide to her. I HAVE to have other things going on and this applies even if married. If she feels like you have other options and a life outside her then she will value you and seek your attention. Attention is the currency that women deal with like stated in an earlier post. The thing is, if she ever becomes the soul focus of your life she will eventually despise you even if she says that's what she wants. Taking care of myself and socializing in a way where she knows that you are desired by other women is powerful. I'm not saying rub her face in it, it's a subtle thing. Demonstrating that you are physically and socially desirable. </p><p></p><p>If she decides to test me in some way I just have to respond accordingly because there are so many different types of tests. Sometimes I ignore. Sometimes I set a boundary. Sometimes I pull back a bit. </p><p></p><p>For example early on I thought she was working too much for us to get in a groove. My inclination was to talk to her about working less but then I realized that's freaking pathetic. So instead, I started working more. And guess what happened. All of a sudden she thinks I'm working too much and now she decides she needs to work less and cook me dinner and focus more on me. Can you imagine what the result would have been if I asked her to spend more time with me?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DixieWrecked, post: 223044, member: 38965"] I have found that the most anxiety inducing behavior that elicits the most loving and cooperative response from a female is controlling the amount of attention I provide to her. I HAVE to have other things going on and this applies even if married. If she feels like you have other options and a life outside her then she will value you and seek your attention. Attention is the currency that women deal with like stated in an earlier post. The thing is, if she ever becomes the soul focus of your life she will eventually despise you even if she says that's what she wants. Taking care of myself and socializing in a way where she knows that you are desired by other women is powerful. I'm not saying rub her face in it, it's a subtle thing. Demonstrating that you are physically and socially desirable. If she decides to test me in some way I just have to respond accordingly because there are so many different types of tests. Sometimes I ignore. Sometimes I set a boundary. Sometimes I pull back a bit. For example early on I thought she was working too much for us to get in a groove. My inclination was to talk to her about working less but then I realized that's freaking pathetic. So instead, I started working more. And guess what happened. All of a sudden she thinks I'm working too much and now she decides she needs to work less and cook me dinner and focus more on me. Can you imagine what the result would have been if I asked her to spend more time with me? [/QUOTE]
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