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<blockquote data-quote="TheyCallMeTrinity" data-source="post: 222315" data-attributes="member: 2457"><p>Been happily married for 20+ years now - have 3 kids. I think I found that diamond in the rough - the traditional woman - stayed home to raise the kids while I built my business. But 1. I live in the Midwest and 2. vetted her REALLY well - we dated FIVE years before getting married. I met her family and parents many times and her two sisters are also happily married and she has a great relationship with both parents AND respects them. She also takes great care of herself.</p><p></p><p>In today's market I can't even imagine trying to find a traditional woman in the U.S., especially in a big city. There are tons of red-pill YouTube channels on this, but I can see with ALL the young women I know from 10 to 25 (including my tween/teen daughters), that generation is now completely addicted to social media & entertainment (much more than guys). They are addicted to that Dopamine hit by swiping through apps, getting constant approval online, etc - giving them an unrealistic view of the real world and always looking for the next thing. I even get caught up in social media sometimes.</p><p></p><p>If I was single again and had the means, I would seriously consider at least looking overseas - and probably Southeast Asia. I've seen a lot if info showing that even Eastern European gals are getting highly westernized, so I'd probably stay away from there.</p><p></p><p>U.S. marriage, alimony and child support/custody laws are skewed heavily in favor of the woman, so until that comes back around, young men (especially entrepreneurs) are really taking a huge risk vs. reward with marriage. Prenups are also very hard to enforce in most states, regardless of how well they are drafted.</p><p></p><p>My 17 year old son has a terrific, traditional long-term girlfriend - he's VERY lucky - most of her friends are sleeping around even at her age (not going to pair-bond well when they are older). But even then, I worry when he comes to me some day if they want to get engaged as there is just so much risk involved. I would probably try to put any inheritance he might get into some sort of trust only he can get funds from - I have to look into that. As others have said, I don't blame women, it's just female nature PLUS the current legal/social environment they are in - the perfect storm for where we are now. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>For those saying this is all negativity, you're free to ignore the facts and bury your head in the sand, but this is definitely a sad situation for young men today. (and it wasn't exactly easy back when I was young <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> )</p><p></p><p>Oh, and if I did not want kids, I may well have not even gotten married ... or at least not until my 40's or later. Marriage is a legal contract - the most important contract you will sign in your life - never forget that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TheyCallMeTrinity, post: 222315, member: 2457"] Been happily married for 20+ years now - have 3 kids. I think I found that diamond in the rough - the traditional woman - stayed home to raise the kids while I built my business. But 1. I live in the Midwest and 2. vetted her REALLY well - we dated FIVE years before getting married. I met her family and parents many times and her two sisters are also happily married and she has a great relationship with both parents AND respects them. She also takes great care of herself. In today's market I can't even imagine trying to find a traditional woman in the U.S., especially in a big city. There are tons of red-pill YouTube channels on this, but I can see with ALL the young women I know from 10 to 25 (including my tween/teen daughters), that generation is now completely addicted to social media & entertainment (much more than guys). They are addicted to that Dopamine hit by swiping through apps, getting constant approval online, etc - giving them an unrealistic view of the real world and always looking for the next thing. I even get caught up in social media sometimes. If I was single again and had the means, I would seriously consider at least looking overseas - and probably Southeast Asia. I've seen a lot if info showing that even Eastern European gals are getting highly westernized, so I'd probably stay away from there. U.S. marriage, alimony and child support/custody laws are skewed heavily in favor of the woman, so until that comes back around, young men (especially entrepreneurs) are really taking a huge risk vs. reward with marriage. Prenups are also very hard to enforce in most states, regardless of how well they are drafted. My 17 year old son has a terrific, traditional long-term girlfriend - he's VERY lucky - most of her friends are sleeping around even at her age (not going to pair-bond well when they are older). But even then, I worry when he comes to me some day if they want to get engaged as there is just so much risk involved. I would probably try to put any inheritance he might get into some sort of trust only he can get funds from - I have to look into that. As others have said, I don't blame women, it's just female nature PLUS the current legal/social environment they are in - the perfect storm for where we are now. :( For those saying this is all negativity, you're free to ignore the facts and bury your head in the sand, but this is definitely a sad situation for young men today. (and it wasn't exactly easy back when I was young :) ) Oh, and if I did not want kids, I may well have not even gotten married ... or at least not until my 40's or later. Marriage is a legal contract - the most important contract you will sign in your life - never forget that. [/QUOTE]
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