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<blockquote data-quote="Mountain Man" data-source="post: 148501" data-attributes="member: 14411"><p>Of course it doesn’t work with your wife. When a guy has to practically beg his wife for sex, it can’t be conducive to a good time. Vince is right in that your wife is not feeling very good about herself, or at least herself as a sexual being. As far as porn being a factor, it’s hard to say. The human sexual response is one of the most natural, and complex, of human experiences and it doesn’t take much to mess it up. Any anxiety or tension is an erection killer. In porn, there is no tension nor chance of rejection and this is a major reason why guys say it “works during porn but not during sex.” As far as the “sensitivity problem” guys refer to, that is also mostly psychological as well. In sex therapy there is a phenomenon called being the “spectator,” where a person views their performance from a third person viewpoint. They are not mindfully participating in the process, become self critical and too analytical, and lose their mojo.</p><p></p><p>Women, especially wives, are very complicated. Relationships over a period of years go through cycles and sex is a cyclical thing in a long term relationship. Your wife, if not desiring intercourse, should be willing to service you with hand or orally or somehow to keep you satisfied. Neither pArtner should deny the other. If she makes you feel good and you let he know, she can’t help but feel better about herself.</p><p></p><p>I’m 65 and married 32 years. We have been through these cycles. Sine on TRT the past 3 years, sex has been better that any time in our lives. My wife is down to the same size she was when we married and hasn’t been this fit since the early 90s. I haven’t had this kind of muscularity since my mid 30s. The only sex problems we have, and it is a quality problem, is that I want he daily and she can only handle 3 times per week. I never masturbate, I save that energy for her. I allow her to make me feel horny daily to keep arousal levels for her high, and if it is overwhelming she will accommodate me without intercourse. Sex is a conditioned response and this keeps the response sharp, at least for me.</p><p></p><p>As far as the comment about guys “having an army of supplements,” absolutely! Guilty as charged. I take a modified version of Gene’s NO stack with the staples being daily Cialis and Flomax, along with citrulline and arginine. When you are in your 60s, I hope that you too will be willing to do whatever it takes to be sexually active. Sex is a part of health and vitality and not merely vanity or hedonism. A marriage of over 30 years can be the best place to get these basic needs met.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mountain Man, post: 148501, member: 14411"] Of course it doesn’t work with your wife. When a guy has to practically beg his wife for sex, it can’t be conducive to a good time. Vince is right in that your wife is not feeling very good about herself, or at least herself as a sexual being. As far as porn being a factor, it’s hard to say. The human sexual response is one of the most natural, and complex, of human experiences and it doesn’t take much to mess it up. Any anxiety or tension is an erection killer. In porn, there is no tension nor chance of rejection and this is a major reason why guys say it “works during porn but not during sex.” As far as the “sensitivity problem” guys refer to, that is also mostly psychological as well. In sex therapy there is a phenomenon called being the “spectator,” where a person views their performance from a third person viewpoint. They are not mindfully participating in the process, become self critical and too analytical, and lose their mojo. Women, especially wives, are very complicated. Relationships over a period of years go through cycles and sex is a cyclical thing in a long term relationship. Your wife, if not desiring intercourse, should be willing to service you with hand or orally or somehow to keep you satisfied. Neither pArtner should deny the other. If she makes you feel good and you let he know, she can’t help but feel better about herself. I’m 65 and married 32 years. We have been through these cycles. Sine on TRT the past 3 years, sex has been better that any time in our lives. My wife is down to the same size she was when we married and hasn’t been this fit since the early 90s. I haven’t had this kind of muscularity since my mid 30s. The only sex problems we have, and it is a quality problem, is that I want he daily and she can only handle 3 times per week. I never masturbate, I save that energy for her. I allow her to make me feel horny daily to keep arousal levels for her high, and if it is overwhelming she will accommodate me without intercourse. Sex is a conditioned response and this keeps the response sharp, at least for me. As far as the comment about guys “having an army of supplements,” absolutely! Guilty as charged. I take a modified version of Gene’s NO stack with the staples being daily Cialis and Flomax, along with citrulline and arginine. When you are in your 60s, I hope that you too will be willing to do whatever it takes to be sexually active. Sex is a part of health and vitality and not merely vanity or hedonism. A marriage of over 30 years can be the best place to get these basic needs met. [/QUOTE]
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