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Testosterone Replacement, Low T, HCG, & Beyond
Testosterone Basics & Questions
Going with Defy, I can't do this on my own anymore.
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<blockquote data-quote="Paco1973" data-source="post: 116057" data-attributes="member: 18744"><p>I don't know your medical history, what your labs look like, and I'm not really trained to know how to interpret them even if you had them available. I'm just a guy who has kids almost your age, and I have racked up a tiny bit of life experience.</p><p></p><p>I go to Defy. They're great. You're in good hands. It may take a while for you to feel better, but I urge you to stick with it. If you are truly hypogonadal and can't recover, you need your trt protocol regardless of your inability to get an erection. It may just be necessary for good quality of life outside the bedroom. I'm a fan of things that come closer to imitating what the body does naturally (i.e. gels, creams, or a short ester like propionate). Some guys feel great on long esters, but, since I started propionate, I'm singing its praises from the mountaintops. </p><p></p><p>He who risks nothing gains nothing. For now, don't worry about your inability to perform. Sex isn't just about penetration. That's something for you and your partner to figure out together. But, if she decides to end the relationship, DO NOT be discouraged. She wasn't the right one anyway. If the keystone for the relationship is sex, it will fail 100% of the time. The right one will be by your side regardless, and, believe me, there is a right one out there. Just keep your standards high. </p><p></p><p>There are a lot of medical solutions for ED. I don't know if your problem is physiological or psychological, but, if all else fails, there is always the surgical implant solution. What I'm getting at is your situation is not hopeless. </p><p></p><p>At the end of the day, you may need to see a urologist. Hopefully Defy can get that area of your life figured out. </p><p></p><p>Here in the US, we have funny attitudes about things. I am married to a Filipina, and I just got back to the US from the Philippines in June. Here in the US, we tend to place sex at the center of everything. I think that's why so many guys are devastated by ED. In the Philippines, they have a completely different attitude about it. I've seen guys just drinking, hanging out, and joking about not being able to get an erection. Nobody is ashamed. They realize that that is part of life. Their focus is on enjoying life, not worrying. In the US, we love to worry. It's what we do best.The Philippines is a third world country, and most guys can't afford any sort of treatment (A 5 dollar a day salary can only stretch so far). In spite of their circumstances, they were some of the happiest people I ever met. That shined a light on my own issues regarding life, sex, and masculinity. I got my issues worked out through Defy, and I'm functioning just fine now. But, I'm grateful for the time I had issues, because I learned quite a bit from it. </p><p></p><p>What I'm getting at is that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and your attitude towards a situation can make all the difference. </p><p></p><p>You only have one life. Enjoy it. Worry less, and do things that make you happy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Paco1973, post: 116057, member: 18744"] I don't know your medical history, what your labs look like, and I'm not really trained to know how to interpret them even if you had them available. I'm just a guy who has kids almost your age, and I have racked up a tiny bit of life experience. I go to Defy. They're great. You're in good hands. It may take a while for you to feel better, but I urge you to stick with it. If you are truly hypogonadal and can't recover, you need your trt protocol regardless of your inability to get an erection. It may just be necessary for good quality of life outside the bedroom. I'm a fan of things that come closer to imitating what the body does naturally (i.e. gels, creams, or a short ester like propionate). Some guys feel great on long esters, but, since I started propionate, I'm singing its praises from the mountaintops. He who risks nothing gains nothing. For now, don't worry about your inability to perform. Sex isn't just about penetration. That's something for you and your partner to figure out together. But, if she decides to end the relationship, DO NOT be discouraged. She wasn't the right one anyway. If the keystone for the relationship is sex, it will fail 100% of the time. The right one will be by your side regardless, and, believe me, there is a right one out there. Just keep your standards high. There are a lot of medical solutions for ED. I don't know if your problem is physiological or psychological, but, if all else fails, there is always the surgical implant solution. What I'm getting at is your situation is not hopeless. At the end of the day, you may need to see a urologist. Hopefully Defy can get that area of your life figured out. Here in the US, we have funny attitudes about things. I am married to a Filipina, and I just got back to the US from the Philippines in June. Here in the US, we tend to place sex at the center of everything. I think that's why so many guys are devastated by ED. In the Philippines, they have a completely different attitude about it. I've seen guys just drinking, hanging out, and joking about not being able to get an erection. Nobody is ashamed. They realize that that is part of life. Their focus is on enjoying life, not worrying. In the US, we love to worry. It's what we do best.The Philippines is a third world country, and most guys can't afford any sort of treatment (A 5 dollar a day salary can only stretch so far). In spite of their circumstances, they were some of the happiest people I ever met. That shined a light on my own issues regarding life, sex, and masculinity. I got my issues worked out through Defy, and I'm functioning just fine now. But, I'm grateful for the time I had issues, because I learned quite a bit from it. What I'm getting at is that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and your attitude towards a situation can make all the difference. You only have one life. Enjoy it. Worry less, and do things that make you happy. [/QUOTE]
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