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Testosterone Replacement, Low T, HCG, & Beyond
When Testosterone Is Not Enough
ED issues - 2 years & counting trying to get to root cause
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<blockquote data-quote="Mountain Man" data-source="post: 172745" data-attributes="member: 14411"><p>Seems to be a high dose of test and a complicated protocol. Others have more knowledge that I about the protocols. I do know a lot about the psychological side and can definitely shed some light on that. I’d suggest daily cialis, 5 mg and start with 10 mg when sex is planned. You are not, in my opinion, incapable of great sex. It would seem the combination of where you are in life, the kids, work, school and the other stressors are the problem. I was in the same exact spot at about the same age. Sildenafil is not as good if you need to plan, which you do.</p><p>The biggest issue seems to be your expectations. Sex is a more broad thing than just orgasms, and when a relationship is in the spot you are in, there is a hyper focus on orgasms. Anxiety and unrealistic expectations make that even more difficult, as counterintuitive as that seems. Learning to give and receive pleasure can be incredibly exciting and it can feel like you are with your long time partner for the first time. You, and your wife, need to relearn how to flirt, tease, and excite each other. “Let me know if you are hard and we’ll try” isn’t going to help and actually makes things worse.</p><p></p><p>There are other ways to engage in good sex beyond intercourse. There are a lot of good books that can help. She Comes First is one, and He Comes Next, both by Ian Kerner are two good ones. Another one is this one, available for free. <a href="http://www.eso-garden.com/specials/complete_idiots_guide_to_tantric_sex.pdf" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: 15px">http://www.eso-garden.com/specials/complete_idiots_guide_to_tantric_sex.pdf</span></a></p><p>Share these books and ideas with your wife. It increases the excitement and anticipation needed for good sex. Once you relax and enjoy the journey of sex, as opposed to the destination, it does get better.</p><p></p><p>Biggest thing is relax. It is common, especially at that stage of life. Sounds exactly like my wife and I at age 40. Kids complicate things, but they can be taught when the door is locked to knock add stress management, meditation, cognitive behavioral therapy, and bibliotherapy, along with daily cialis and you’ll be fine. Have fun, enjoy your wife and your sex will remain the glue that holds you both together. We are having the most frequent and best sex of our lives at 66 and 64. I think that’s why sex was invented!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mountain Man, post: 172745, member: 14411"] Seems to be a high dose of test and a complicated protocol. Others have more knowledge that I about the protocols. I do know a lot about the psychological side and can definitely shed some light on that. I’d suggest daily cialis, 5 mg and start with 10 mg when sex is planned. You are not, in my opinion, incapable of great sex. It would seem the combination of where you are in life, the kids, work, school and the other stressors are the problem. I was in the same exact spot at about the same age. Sildenafil is not as good if you need to plan, which you do. The biggest issue seems to be your expectations. Sex is a more broad thing than just orgasms, and when a relationship is in the spot you are in, there is a hyper focus on orgasms. Anxiety and unrealistic expectations make that even more difficult, as counterintuitive as that seems. Learning to give and receive pleasure can be incredibly exciting and it can feel like you are with your long time partner for the first time. You, and your wife, need to relearn how to flirt, tease, and excite each other. “Let me know if you are hard and we’ll try” isn’t going to help and actually makes things worse. There are other ways to engage in good sex beyond intercourse. There are a lot of good books that can help. She Comes First is one, and He Comes Next, both by Ian Kerner are two good ones. Another one is this one, available for free. [URL='http://www.eso-garden.com/specials/complete_idiots_guide_to_tantric_sex.pdf'][SIZE=15px]http://www.eso-garden.com/specials/complete_idiots_guide_to_tantric_sex.pdf[/SIZE][/URL] Share these books and ideas with your wife. It increases the excitement and anticipation needed for good sex. Once you relax and enjoy the journey of sex, as opposed to the destination, it does get better. Biggest thing is relax. It is common, especially at that stage of life. Sounds exactly like my wife and I at age 40. Kids complicate things, but they can be taught when the door is locked to knock add stress management, meditation, cognitive behavioral therapy, and bibliotherapy, along with daily cialis and you’ll be fine. Have fun, enjoy your wife and your sex will remain the glue that holds you both together. We are having the most frequent and best sex of our lives at 66 and 64. I think that’s why sex was invented! [/QUOTE]
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