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Coming clean and looking for some decent advice
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<blockquote data-quote="Cataceous" data-source="post: 169363" data-attributes="member: 38109"><p>I agree with Renman that there <em>shouldn't</em> be anything wrong with such consensual transactions. But this doesn't address your other concerns: How likely is this to land you "in a pickle"? Just because social mores are wrong doesn't mean you can ignore them with impunity. You need to weigh potential long-term consequences and decide if the risk is acceptable. And the other point—does this harm your self-esteem, and further, could it harm your ability to form more desirable long-term relationships? It's one thing to know intellectually that you shouldn't feel shame or guilt, but it's another thing to escape ingrained social conditioning—yours, especially that of others.</p><p></p><p>In any case, it's good that you're willing to give this some thought.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cataceous, post: 169363, member: 38109"] I agree with Renman that there [I]shouldn't[/I] be anything wrong with such consensual transactions. But this doesn't address your other concerns: How likely is this to land you "in a pickle"? Just because social mores are wrong doesn't mean you can ignore them with impunity. You need to weigh potential long-term consequences and decide if the risk is acceptable. And the other point—does this harm your self-esteem, and further, could it harm your ability to form more desirable long-term relationships? It's one thing to know intellectually that you shouldn't feel shame or guilt, but it's another thing to escape ingrained social conditioning—yours, especially that of others. In any case, it's good that you're willing to give this some thought. [/QUOTE]
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