Why would I turn down a patient with your symptoms? I might not agree with WHY you think you are experiencing what you are experiencing, and I am not saying your symptoms aren't real, I just disagree with your proposed etiology because there is no empirical evidence that this could happen.
Many of your symptoms sound very similar to PFS, and I am assuming you've browsed the PFS forums due to your hair issues, those forums are toxic. I believe PFS is nothing more than chronic fatigue syndrome, the anxiety, and depression caused by PFS is perpetuated by a fear of normal male functionings not returning (this has been a proposed theory from people who cured themselves of PFS) . When you are in a constant state of anxiety and depressed because of your anxiety, you will not have a libido and erections will be poor. There was a study on Finasteride where the placebo group reported a laundry list of sexual side effects compared to the Finasteride group, this should clue in any researcher that there is a large nocebo effect at play here.
I am certainly not saying that these symptoms are "made up" at all, they are very real, but millions of other people have the exact same symptoms (fatigue, low libido, ED, depression, anxiety, insomnia) and its labeled as chronic fatigue syndrome, PFS is not some "stand alone" issue. I feel like you've adopted many symptoms of PFS and created this "estrogen insensitivity" out of it.
Go to the PFS forums and make a thread that Finasteride made you grow horns and watch how many people will chime and say "ME TOO!!". The more studies they keep doing on this phenomenon the more a nocebo pattern emerges. All of your reported side effects are nearly word for word PFS symptoms.
