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<blockquote data-quote="GTSILVER" data-source="post: 278851" data-attributes="member: 45761"><p>Well, I am</p><p>69 years old and have been with a number of great women over my lifetime. Currently married the past 12 years with a fabulous wife. We got married at 58 and we are now both age 69 and months away from turning 70. For her, I was the best lover and love maker she’d ever been with and the most sexually attracted man that she’s enjoyed. Conversely, my wife and I are extraordinarily connected in a sexual way not experienced by either of us before in our lives. It’s try something very special that we are blessed to have and enjoy!</p><p>My wife is a bit of a “slow cooker.” Meaning, it can take her a good 20-30 minutes to experience an orgasm.</p><p>However, I am a very lucky man that she’s in the 25% of women who can experience an orgasm just with vaginal stimulation. Most women can not do this. That’s certainly no kind of negative comment about that but just an understanding of the facts.</p><p>The vast majority of women also require “clitorial stimulation” in conjunction with vaginal to experience an orgasm.</p><p>However, I am very happy and delighted to provide whatever my wife life likes and wants. She used to like a very slow moving, intimate with a build up of grinding and synchronized moving hips with other things thrown in a she would enjoy large, spectacular, take your breathe away multiple orgasms.</p><p>In recent months she seems to prefer a continuously “in out, in out, in out” with a few deep power thrusts that really gets her going. Thankfully for me, my wife “climaxes” almost every time we make love. Like all couples, sometimes she’s a little to stressed out over business, long day or just low on personal energy etc so she doesn’t climax. Absolutely no worries. Overall, we just love and really value and appreciate the overall closeness and intimacy that sexual intercourse can bring to us as a couple.</p><p>Other than simply asking your wife what kinds of sexual positions or types of ways she likes her vagina stimulated, clitorous, G Spot, being on top, “Cowboy or Reverse Cowboy Style, Doggy Style, interlocked facing each other sitting up with your legs open to each other for penetration with the added value of being able to constantly to look directly into your lover’s eyes and just melt. Of course, there are many more positions and types of making love techniques any couple can enjoy. Some couples love playing with toys. My wife has absolutely no desire or interest in doing that. Some prefer to use some kind of lovemaking assist pillow etc. Again, my wife doesn’t want anything to do with that.</p><p>The simple fact that we both orgasm almost every time we make love together doesn’t call in for the need to incorporate a lot of other additives.</p><p>I also happen to be blessed with being able to provide an absolute “World Class Massage” for my wife. She absolutely melts in my hands with this.</p><p>Physical and sexual intimacy should at least be in theory, something you get better at as a couple the longer you’re together in your relationship. Being open and willing to talk about your preferences, what you really enjoy or do not, or more of what you’d like more of or less of etc. I absolutely love lingerie on my wife and it’s an extreme turn on for me. I’ve purchase a number of things that especially turns me on when she wears them. She just looks absolutely fabulous when wearing them that I end up removing them fairly quickly during our foreplay but have been known to just leave them all on and opened while we make love. Both of us are almost at age 70. Enjoying the best overall sex and intimacy in our lifetimes!</p><p>We really enjoy and get turned on by each other’s bodies. Everybody has their preferences. My wife, to me in my eyes, drives me absolutely “nuts” and I could make love to her 4-5 time a week. She’s not really available for that type of schedule but we manage very nicely somewhere in between.</p><p>I suppose the bottom line regarding women experiencing orgasms has and can have a many layered effect to it. Past sexual experiences in her life, (good, bad or horrible). Unfortunately, did she endure any type or kind of family incest, rape or outside of the family rape etc? Have the men in her life really valued her as a complete woman and not just some pretty lady with “great tits and a wet pussy! Unfortunately, there are a lot of uneducated and or inexperienced men in our society that also deal with their own sexual challenges, insecurities and lack of confidence about what and how to really “make love with women!” It’s absolutely an art form. That said, there are times when you and your partner will just want to tear your clothes off ASAP and just go for a quickie hard fuck! Those are great too. Or perhaps an unexpected “nooner” at home because the circumstances line up that way. There’s time when following a nice romantic dinner out you want to keep the celebration going in bed with that long, sensuous and romantic love making!</p><p>I do know that the more your wife feels comfortable, absolutely loved, cared for and cherished………..that alone will increase her ability to have and enjoy more orgasms with you.</p><p>Enjoy the ride and best wishes,</p><p>Phil</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GTSILVER, post: 278851, member: 45761"] Well, I am 69 years old and have been with a number of great women over my lifetime. Currently married the past 12 years with a fabulous wife. We got married at 58 and we are now both age 69 and months away from turning 70. For her, I was the best lover and love maker she’d ever been with and the most sexually attracted man that she’s enjoyed. Conversely, my wife and I are extraordinarily connected in a sexual way not experienced by either of us before in our lives. It’s try something very special that we are blessed to have and enjoy! My wife is a bit of a “slow cooker.” Meaning, it can take her a good 20-30 minutes to experience an orgasm. However, I am a very lucky man that she’s in the 25% of women who can experience an orgasm just with vaginal stimulation. Most women can not do this. That’s certainly no kind of negative comment about that but just an understanding of the facts. The vast majority of women also require “clitorial stimulation” in conjunction with vaginal to experience an orgasm. However, I am very happy and delighted to provide whatever my wife life likes and wants. She used to like a very slow moving, intimate with a build up of grinding and synchronized moving hips with other things thrown in a she would enjoy large, spectacular, take your breathe away multiple orgasms. In recent months she seems to prefer a continuously “in out, in out, in out” with a few deep power thrusts that really gets her going. Thankfully for me, my wife “climaxes” almost every time we make love. Like all couples, sometimes she’s a little to stressed out over business, long day or just low on personal energy etc so she doesn’t climax. Absolutely no worries. Overall, we just love and really value and appreciate the overall closeness and intimacy that sexual intercourse can bring to us as a couple. Other than simply asking your wife what kinds of sexual positions or types of ways she likes her vagina stimulated, clitorous, G Spot, being on top, “Cowboy or Reverse Cowboy Style, Doggy Style, interlocked facing each other sitting up with your legs open to each other for penetration with the added value of being able to constantly to look directly into your lover’s eyes and just melt. Of course, there are many more positions and types of making love techniques any couple can enjoy. Some couples love playing with toys. My wife has absolutely no desire or interest in doing that. Some prefer to use some kind of lovemaking assist pillow etc. Again, my wife doesn’t want anything to do with that. The simple fact that we both orgasm almost every time we make love together doesn’t call in for the need to incorporate a lot of other additives. I also happen to be blessed with being able to provide an absolute “World Class Massage” for my wife. She absolutely melts in my hands with this. Physical and sexual intimacy should at least be in theory, something you get better at as a couple the longer you’re together in your relationship. Being open and willing to talk about your preferences, what you really enjoy or do not, or more of what you’d like more of or less of etc. I absolutely love lingerie on my wife and it’s an extreme turn on for me. I’ve purchase a number of things that especially turns me on when she wears them. She just looks absolutely fabulous when wearing them that I end up removing them fairly quickly during our foreplay but have been known to just leave them all on and opened while we make love. Both of us are almost at age 70. Enjoying the best overall sex and intimacy in our lifetimes! We really enjoy and get turned on by each other’s bodies. Everybody has their preferences. My wife, to me in my eyes, drives me absolutely “nuts” and I could make love to her 4-5 time a week. She’s not really available for that type of schedule but we manage very nicely somewhere in between. I suppose the bottom line regarding women experiencing orgasms has and can have a many layered effect to it. Past sexual experiences in her life, (good, bad or horrible). Unfortunately, did she endure any type or kind of family incest, rape or outside of the family rape etc? Have the men in her life really valued her as a complete woman and not just some pretty lady with “great tits and a wet pussy! Unfortunately, there are a lot of uneducated and or inexperienced men in our society that also deal with their own sexual challenges, insecurities and lack of confidence about what and how to really “make love with women!” It’s absolutely an art form. That said, there are times when you and your partner will just want to tear your clothes off ASAP and just go for a quickie hard fuck! Those are great too. Or perhaps an unexpected “nooner” at home because the circumstances line up that way. There’s time when following a nice romantic dinner out you want to keep the celebration going in bed with that long, sensuous and romantic love making! I do know that the more your wife feels comfortable, absolutely loved, cared for and cherished………..that alone will increase her ability to have and enjoy more orgasms with you. Enjoy the ride and best wishes, Phil [/QUOTE]
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