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<blockquote data-quote="Anonymon" data-source="post: 223526" data-attributes="member: 42608"><p>One girl I used to date is going to be 41 soon and does pretty well, but she’s also crazy and shoots herself in the foot any time she’s with somebody. With one great guy she thought he was too good for her and she left. Another great guy she was with for like 8 years had her refusing to have kids when the plan the whole time was kids which is why she was unemployed and kind of a home maker and she felt bad that he felt bad about that and she ruined things by telling him he could sleep with other people and then he did and she got mad at that. She kept trying to date me again and I kept telling her I didn’t want to date her and one day she just showed up at my door step with nowhere else to go. She’s super hot and her personality is great, then she goes crazy bitch and you hold on for your life or call the cops like I did. Crazy sex is always the best sex. Guys really like her though and for good reason. She hilariously wants to have kids and is fertile but also wants a surrogate to have it to avoid complications, which you’d have to pay for at $50k a kid. Hearing her list of demands was pretty hilarious when she was throwing herself at me trying to get me to date her. Even if she didn’t go crazy on people, which at times is kind of hot, she’s not willing to contribute much, nor are most girls at that age and single. It’s a myth that girls in their late 30’s and 40’s can’t find a good guy. They just can’t find the guy they could have gotten and likely were with in their 20’s, and haven’t at all grown in any relevant way to have something to offer someone. At that point you are stuck settling, which makes for a bad marriage if the girl does it. Guys settling usually do just fine. Most guys are basically settling because you have to date across or down, you can’t date up in most cases.</p><p></p><p>You can pull some serious men at that age but you have to be an 8-10 and amazing at sex and have the best personality ever. And even then, after I called the cops on that girl, I just dated a hot 22 year old that was perfect, so if you’re going into things with baggage it’s hard to compete. Few women of that age aren’t made of baggage by that point whereas guys can usually keep it together since dating is getting easier not harder. You usually have more to offer, whereas women have less. Wine vs milk analogy is a good one here.</p><p></p><p>If a girl is that age and has a career it’s even worse because she’s going to want someone doing as well or better than her, and it’s usually easier for girls to do well because they get a free pass everywhere. The guys that are doing as well or better than them want a hot 22 year old that has time for them and not a career. So they end up spinsters wondering where all the good men went when the good men dated women that tried being womanly and didn’t try to impress them with manly things like their ability to provide. If a girl has a career she also still ends up being a net drain on you financially in most cases because what’s hers is hers and what’s yours is now also partly hers. Broke up with a great girl in her 30’s because of that. Ended up telling her that she’s playing a game a 20 year old would and if I wanted that I’d just date a 20 year old, which I did a month after we parted. The only girls I’ve dated that were great about finance were born hyper rich and money is a made up concept to them. I like it when someone I date is a student because they have a lot of time for you. Worst was a lawyer. No time. No real relationship. Then she wants to retire into you and expects you to be able to maintain her lavish lifestyle as she quits her job. </p><p></p><p>My area’s super wealthy and we have all kinds hot girls up to their 60s here. I’ve seen plenty of girls in their 60’s here that you’d think were 40 and are still really hot. Usually had some work done, but still, they look great. Not the case elsewhere but it is where I’m at. For more than sex though you have to bring something else to the table. There are a lot of attractive women. And if you’re over 40, you have a lot less to offer. If I have a daughter I’d want her to find a good guy ASAP and lock him down when she’s young. Best for both of them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Anonymon, post: 223526, member: 42608"] One girl I used to date is going to be 41 soon and does pretty well, but she’s also crazy and shoots herself in the foot any time she’s with somebody. With one great guy she thought he was too good for her and she left. Another great guy she was with for like 8 years had her refusing to have kids when the plan the whole time was kids which is why she was unemployed and kind of a home maker and she felt bad that he felt bad about that and she ruined things by telling him he could sleep with other people and then he did and she got mad at that. She kept trying to date me again and I kept telling her I didn’t want to date her and one day she just showed up at my door step with nowhere else to go. She’s super hot and her personality is great, then she goes crazy bitch and you hold on for your life or call the cops like I did. Crazy sex is always the best sex. Guys really like her though and for good reason. She hilariously wants to have kids and is fertile but also wants a surrogate to have it to avoid complications, which you’d have to pay for at $50k a kid. Hearing her list of demands was pretty hilarious when she was throwing herself at me trying to get me to date her. Even if she didn’t go crazy on people, which at times is kind of hot, she’s not willing to contribute much, nor are most girls at that age and single. It’s a myth that girls in their late 30’s and 40’s can’t find a good guy. They just can’t find the guy they could have gotten and likely were with in their 20’s, and haven’t at all grown in any relevant way to have something to offer someone. At that point you are stuck settling, which makes for a bad marriage if the girl does it. Guys settling usually do just fine. Most guys are basically settling because you have to date across or down, you can’t date up in most cases. You can pull some serious men at that age but you have to be an 8-10 and amazing at sex and have the best personality ever. And even then, after I called the cops on that girl, I just dated a hot 22 year old that was perfect, so if you’re going into things with baggage it’s hard to compete. Few women of that age aren’t made of baggage by that point whereas guys can usually keep it together since dating is getting easier not harder. You usually have more to offer, whereas women have less. Wine vs milk analogy is a good one here. If a girl is that age and has a career it’s even worse because she’s going to want someone doing as well or better than her, and it’s usually easier for girls to do well because they get a free pass everywhere. The guys that are doing as well or better than them want a hot 22 year old that has time for them and not a career. So they end up spinsters wondering where all the good men went when the good men dated women that tried being womanly and didn’t try to impress them with manly things like their ability to provide. If a girl has a career she also still ends up being a net drain on you financially in most cases because what’s hers is hers and what’s yours is now also partly hers. Broke up with a great girl in her 30’s because of that. Ended up telling her that she’s playing a game a 20 year old would and if I wanted that I’d just date a 20 year old, which I did a month after we parted. The only girls I’ve dated that were great about finance were born hyper rich and money is a made up concept to them. I like it when someone I date is a student because they have a lot of time for you. Worst was a lawyer. No time. No real relationship. Then she wants to retire into you and expects you to be able to maintain her lavish lifestyle as she quits her job. My area’s super wealthy and we have all kinds hot girls up to their 60s here. I’ve seen plenty of girls in their 60’s here that you’d think were 40 and are still really hot. Usually had some work done, but still, they look great. Not the case elsewhere but it is where I’m at. For more than sex though you have to bring something else to the table. There are a lot of attractive women. And if you’re over 40, you have a lot less to offer. If I have a daughter I’d want her to find a good guy ASAP and lock him down when she’s young. Best for both of them. [/QUOTE]
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