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<blockquote data-quote="JmarkH" data-source="post: 222289" data-attributes="member: 43587"><p>No, my success rate in 2022 would be far higher than when I was young. I know more about how relationships and success works. I genuinely know how to be a growing, better version of myself and encourage those around me to do the same.</p><p></p><p>Focusing on examples of failures has several adverse effects. One: as a failure in my relationships, I find others that are greater failures, so I don’t feel so bad. I’m somehow better than them, but have set a shallow standard for my life. Two: I become like those I associate with. If I associate with social and relational failures, I gravitate toward those situations.</p><p></p><p>I suggest finding and associating with people who have nurturing relationships. Watch and study how they practice self-management, interdependence, emotional management, conflict resolution, and self-awareness.</p><p></p><p>We live with three voices; the inner critic, the inner defender, and the inner creator. The first two keep us down and hold us back. The inner critic says you’re too slow, too young or too old, too lousy at relationships. The inner defender says you’re a victim and blames our problems on forces beyond our control, such as other people, bad luck, not enough time or money, and so on. The inner creator is interdependent and hospitable, seeking people and resources that assist our overcoming spirit.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JmarkH, post: 222289, member: 43587"] No, my success rate in 2022 would be far higher than when I was young. I know more about how relationships and success works. I genuinely know how to be a growing, better version of myself and encourage those around me to do the same. Focusing on examples of failures has several adverse effects. One: as a failure in my relationships, I find others that are greater failures, so I don’t feel so bad. I’m somehow better than them, but have set a shallow standard for my life. Two: I become like those I associate with. If I associate with social and relational failures, I gravitate toward those situations. I suggest finding and associating with people who have nurturing relationships. Watch and study how they practice self-management, interdependence, emotional management, conflict resolution, and self-awareness. We live with three voices; the inner critic, the inner defender, and the inner creator. The first two keep us down and hold us back. The inner critic says you’re too slow, too young or too old, too lousy at relationships. The inner defender says you’re a victim and blames our problems on forces beyond our control, such as other people, bad luck, not enough time or money, and so on. The inner creator is interdependent and hospitable, seeking people and resources that assist our overcoming spirit. [/QUOTE]
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